healing

It takes healing to be able to look at yourself and be completely honest about who you have been. With healing you realize that in some situations you really WERE the asshole. In some situations, you were an ASKHOLE (not listening to others and being completely stubborn in your ways). You can clearly see where…

messy

If anyone thinks that healing is one and done, then they have not truly had a trauma to walk through.Life is incredibly messy.People are imperfect- as much as we do not want to admit that.I have found through my writings that I write similar things, over and over. It is not because I didn’t experience…

Don’t Throw It Away

When you love something, you don’t throw it away. I have been cleaning things out recently, getting rid of some things, and packing others. There were a few items in particular that held so many memories for me. The sting of times past brought tears to my eyes. I found myself lost in the smell,…